My boyfriend is ok and drives a Range Rover sport. He is a business man, he sells phones and laptops, but he does not have a house of his own to sleep because he claims Abuja is too expensive.
My boyfriend still lives with his friends in an apartment where they are up to 6 of them. He said they pay 20k each to raise the rent. Every time we had s*x was in my house...
Apparently he lives with me cause most of his things are in my house. I
was very very ok with it since I work and we both love each other. He
just proposed yesterday and I accepted, but am so scared.
My fear is, where will we live?
How will he organise the wedding when he can’t even afford a house? So I
confronted him with my fears and his reply to me was – "baby,
why did you think I want to marry you ? I want to marry you cause you
are a strong woman and I know you will support me. Baby if I don’t have a
house, you have a house, if I can’t pay for our wedding, baby you are
working, if I fall, you should hold me. That is why 2 will become one."
I was so, so shocked! He further said we will maintain the self
contained I live in now and share the rent, and as for our wedding we
will make it portable with the contribution we will get.
I told my mum about this recent development and she asked me to return his engagement ring to him, that the man will be a liability to me.
Please should I listen to my mum OR endure and stay with my boyfriend, hoping things will get better?
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